Because high school isn't all it was cracked up to be..... Damn it Hollywood!!

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Faith in guys?

I have been played by every guy I've dated so I just tend to stay away from dating. I feel that I am too good to get hurt. (Every girl should feel that way btw)
Then along came what I thought would be an extremely good idea. I would be with this one guy but never get too serious. I was with him for awhile and it went great.... I was happy. He was happy. We had fun together.   Until I realized I had feelings for him that he did not have for me. He couldn't even be seen with me in public. I thought getting cheated on was bad! This was even more hurtful. Don't have a fling.... EVER!
This weekend I decided to end whatever we had. I gave someone new a chance and I realized I gave up so much for this fling and missed out on so much!
The guy I hung out with he was GREAT! I had no clue chivalry still existed! He was such an improvement. Maybe it will turn into something, maybe it wont. All that I have know was that it got me away from a toxic fling before it was too late.
Ladies and gentlemen let me tell you DO NOT waste your time giving endless amounts of chances to a shitty guy because there is is always a better guy waiting for their first chance.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Fighting Back?

They say to kill em with kindness. So that's exactly what I've been doing..... Or trying to at least. It is a struggle to not only ignore rude comments but it is even harder to be the better person. They say that turning the other cheek makes you a better person but if you take all of the bullshit how are you even going to improve yourself as a person. How do we fight back without losing our class? Someone  seriously let me know. :P